You’re not “behind” in life because they are no actual rules to when you have to have a ring, a job, a degree, a baby or a house. Those are made up. Not everyone has an easy, priviledged life. Some people are mentally ill, poor, disabled and achieving these things can feel impossible. Give yourself time. Set realistic goals for yourself and don’t compare yourself to others. You’re gonna be ok.
idk if any young person needs to hear this but when you work at a job you absolutely can google anything you don’t know or ask someone for help. school has you conditioned to think you have to have everything memorized all the time but let me tell you. I am dumb as shit and I am great at my job because it’s not a test, it’s just work. the more resources you utilize the better.
I’m serious about this, I got out of school and thought life would be like a test where I had to have everything memorized and be smart all the time and then I got into the work force and was like. Oh everyone is stupid and google exists ok cool
